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You will know if you are at all interested within the next couple of sentences. But I will write more, for those who are curious to know more.


What I need in life is a woman of good character and nurturing ways, who is intrigued by the potential in a spanking centered female led relationship for the long term, where all disciplinary matters are at her discretion, not mine.


It has only taken me some 40 years to admit that and place the following ad.


Bottom Seeks Lessons Learned Under Titania's Magic Wand

While my favorite scene in Shakespeare is Titania and Bottom, I do not seek a fairy queen, but a real woman with a tendency toward romance and language, yet one who is not without her ability to enchant, and quite capable of taking me in hand and leading me through the birch grove and a new direction.


I am a grown, attractive, capable man of talent and inellect, and also a shy boy FINALLY ready to emerge from the shadows of the closet where he has been hiding for 40 years, and take steps toward the firm hand of the loving Ma'am who will pull him across the threshold that leads to the straight back chair and a new life from which there will be no return. Hopefully

Happily/dreadfully ever after.


Perhaps she is as new to exploring and experiencing such things in real life as I am, and ready to make it reality.


Perhaps she has been honing her wisdom and dominant expertise for many years, and ready to mold us into her vision of the ideal pairing of lady and gentelman in public, and Woman and boy in private.


Not a game, or something played around with, it would ideally be something real at all times, even if no one among our families and friends knows our new-found relationship is based around her life-long proclivity for traditional, no-nonsense spanking-related discipline.


I am drawn to women of strong spirit and traditional femininity, with a keen, open mind; nurturing maternal instincts; and a disciplined body that does what she tells it, who wants a LTR where she disciplines my body until it does what she tells it.


WHO I AM


From the Midwest originally. Pretty main stream by NYC standards, progressive socially/politically, but much more traditional and old fashion in my personal ways and means.


I am not "a sub" nor submissive in my daily life and lifestyle, and no one who knows me well would suspect I would ever place such an ad.


I am a lamb in the dark.


I am modeling clay.


I am romantic by nature and prone to crushes. And I want to have a crush on the woman who finally liberates the boy from a very lonely place and makes me her own.

Aries

Average

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Never Married

No

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Brown

Cat

Yes

University Degree

Self-employed

Entertainment / Media

writer

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Teachers Pet

Friendly, Observant

Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

Friendly, Cool

Empathy, Good Looks, Intelligence, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

Someone nurturing, the kind lady who inspires the civilized gentleman in her man, and the romantic crush in her boy.

Someone stylish, the kind of gal whose feminine fashions are more retro wardrobe than fetish wear.

Someone charming, the kind of disciplinarian who could coax a hesitant boy to take the last trembling steps that brings him within reach of being taken in hand and pulled down over her skirted lap in the straight back chair.

Someone seductive, the kind of woman who naturally stirs the animal passions with her enticing female form and alluring feminine wiles, but who is often compelled to hold her man accountable for his lascivious male libido, before she strips him to the naked truth of what a naughty, dirty minded little boy he really is, and spanks him accordingly, until he is truly sorry and truly eager to make up for it all, as he surrenders himself, to her comforting embrace and nurturing bosom, or her stern and fervent resolve to exact further restitution to insure the climactic satisfaction of her own passionate nature.