Clay

English, French

I am a youthful, tall and fit professional gentleman looking for a woman for spanking adventures. Attracted to spanking since I was a teenager, I stopped asking why a long time ago. I love every aspect and am relaxed and confident. Tell me what you would like and we will figure something out. If you want me to be in charge, I can do that. If you want to script your own spanking, I take instructions well.

My preference would be we set expectations that we not seeking to combine the already complex (but so rewarding!) dimensions of spanking with sexual overtones. I am not looking to progress to a relationship that includes the latter, though open to it if that is what evolves. This is not to suggest any lack of warmth or caring in a long-term spanking relationship, which absolutely is what I hope would evolve between us.

If you would like to test the waters, play, experiment, or if you already realize that you would benefit from recurring discipline or mentoring sessions, I hope you will message me. Very light hand-only spankings are fine as well as very hard spankings using implements.You tell me. If you are inexperienced or have never been spanked, I am patient and intuitive.

Never robotic, you won't find me disappearing into a frozen dominant identity repeating stern things to you during your spanking. No writing lines as mock school-girl punishment and no corner time. I promise that I will be present in each moment, attentive only to you and your evolving needs.

I have an advanced degree from a good university and am an established business professional. Are you intelligent? Curious? It's not all about your spanking—there needs to be time set aside for conversation as well. Living alone in a cozy and private West London flat, I often work from home so can accommodate odd schedules if that helps.

Of course, we need to chat for a while first and I promise to be responsive. I am happy to provide photos on request, and apologies for the cropped profile photo here.

Hope to hear from you.

Taurus

Fit

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Separated

Yes - Not At Home

Hands

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Brown

No pets

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Administrative / Management

Owner

Alone

There Is No Noise

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Observant

Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Photography, Reading, Music, Movies, Cooking

Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book

A long lunch with wine in a setting that lets us get to know each other

Complex unscripted role play

Someone They Want To Be

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Middle Of The Road

Fix myself then help others--appears it's gonna take awhile.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Comedy, Drama, Thriller

Rock, Classical

News, Biography, Fiction, History, Humor, Mystery, Erotica

A spanking adventure where you have fun.

Sensitivity, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Mutual attraction; openness – a lack of "veils"; someone I can be open with about my spanking needs and desires; someone who is ready to explore – or continue exploring – her own spanking needs and desires... and a spankable bottom. (And someone I can have a good converstaions with during those times when you are not across my lap.)

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