I am naturally hedonistic and certainly more than a little enthusiastic about spanking particularly as an aperitif to sex. Although I will admit that spanking , caning etc can be a serious turn on for me anyway, also enjoy bedroom fun and occasional limited cross dressing stuff akin to the rocky horror frankenfurter look. my nylons against your nylons surely must work? Well yes but probably not for everyone so its not essential - maybe I shouldn't have metioned it? Oh I don't know!

As my title indicates I think it should be a two way thing that both can enjoy. Although I would consider myself a natural switch

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