Justin

Engels, Franse, Italiaans

I'm a recent widower after a long, happy marriage. We shared everything - values, aesthetics and pleasures - especially sex.
Sex included spanking. I loved gently spanking her pretty little round bottom over my lap and watching her vulva swell and get moist. After spanking her, I loved to kiss her bottom and cxxt better, before entering her doggy-style.
If I was a bad boy,she'd give me a serious caning - telling me to bare my bottom and bend over for six or more strokes with her swishy rattan cane. She enjoyed watching my cock get harder with every painful stroke.

But now she's gone - another victim of The Big C.
I may never entirely get over my loss - but as she said, shortly before she died in my arms, I must move forward.
Sex is easy enough to get, but that alone is not for me. I desperately need to meet a mature woman - any age between 40 and 75 - with whom I can forge an affectionate and hopefully permanent relationship.
What have I got to offer - apart from a reasonably substantial circumcised penis?
(1) I'm bright and creative. I earn my living as a writer.
(2) I'm interested in almost everything - but especially arts, music, countryside and wildlife. (I'm also an occasional petrolhead - in fact I've written a book about it.)
(3) I love oral sex. I'll pleasure you with my tongue and kiss EVERY inch of your lovely body.
(4) If you have natural pubic hair, so much the better - though not essential.
(5) I love peace and quiet - but also the Rolling Stones, who apart from being a great rock band, kick ageism (one of my pet hates) well and truly into touch.
(6) I live in a gorgeous village on Cranborne Chase/Chalke Valley.
(7) Friends say that I'm a nice person - a caring and empathetic one.
(8) I 'm a committed feminist; I can't stand misogyny and stupid male posturing.
(9) I'm romantic.
(10) I'm very open-minded. I don't just mean that in the sexual sense.
(11) I don't give a toss about what's 'trendy' or 'on trend' or anything else that the majority is persuaded to follow.
(12) I'm not that bothered about party political infighting - but I want to see fair play...and I'm appalled by Putin's invasion of Ukraine.
(13) And though it's by no means essential, if you're into spanking, I'm your man.
I'm sure there's lots more - but life's too short - and anyway, the right woman will be able to judge for herself.

Stier

Gemiddeld

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Blank

Weduwe

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Nee

Ogen

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Grijs

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Bachelor

Zelfstandig

Writer

Tussen de €30.000 en €45.000

Alleen

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Buitenstaander

Gereserveerd, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk

Lezen, Theater, Auto's

Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Meeting in a pleasant neutral location e.g. pub garden, bar, hotel lounge, Yellow Book Garden. You may have another suggestion.

Something I haven't tried already.

Vriendelijk, Cool, Obscuur

Atheïst

Nooit

As a recently widowed man, after a very happy marriage, I want to meet someone with whom I can have a warm and vibrant relationship: lots of sex. Plenty of erotic spanking - and when I deserve it,she will administer punishment caning.
My ideal partner will also share my pleasures and introduce me to new ones.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Sadistischh

Ik hou niet van tv

Romantiek, Drama, Erotisch

Country, Rock, Klassiek, Blues, Folk

Biografie, Klassiek , Fictie, Gezondheid, Humor, Educatief, Natuur, Poëzie, Satire, Ik ben een schrijver, Erotica

Sex, Swimming in the sea, Studland Nudist Beach, The Countryside, Good Conversation, Dining or Drinking with friends, watching an erotic movie with a sexual partner, Spanking as foreplay...and lots lots more

Spontaniteit, Eigenaardigheden, Moed, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

What do you mean by what do I look for? I don't look for anything. But if I meet a woman I find attractive - and who finds me attractive -then I know right away. And so does she.
By the way - I find the relationship tick-boxes below incredibly naff.
Of course I want a friend. Of course I want to fuck. Of course I love oral sex. Who doesn't? So I've just ticked Other; take that whichever way you like.

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