James

I love all aspects of spanking and have my whole life. Every aspect Anticipation, Actual Spanking, and Afterglow.

I enjoy giving as much as receiving. I am a much better spanker because I totally understand the emotions the spankee is going through.

I am experienced. I am respectful, safe, adventurous, open-minded, creative, clean, alcohol and drug free. It is important to understand and respect limits by always playing safe. Have open and honest conversations about expectations, desires, and fantasies. Many times spanking leads to other things. I believe a spanking relationship is special because we are vulnerable and open ourselves up to our needs, desires, and fantasies.

I believe we need to communicate at a next level and not be afraid to talk about things out of fear of judgement, regardless of the topic.

I do believe in the “5 Love Languages” from experience two people who really know how to make their partner feel loved creates next level communication, companionship, loyalty, and desire.

Looking for a woman who is similar to me and likes to give or receive. I do like to give more than receive, but I do to receive. I want a woman who is intelligent yet down to earth. Independent but can be both submissive and dominant behind closed doors. She is good at conversation even about deep subjects. Does not judge regardless of the subject. Has an open-mind to possibilities and looks for the ways a relationship can grow. She is not all about material possessions but can find joy in many different situations. She enjoys controlling things as much as she likes being controlled. Basically the best of both worlds. She is a good planner that complements my spontaneous nature. Not afraid to take charge.

My nature is to be extremely caring and have a strong desire to please. I enjoy many things and love to share myself with my partner. I am pretty reserved but will open up when I sense the right chemistry. Chemistry is very important. Many times we know very quickly if there is chemistry, however sometimes it takes a few meetings to fully discover. I would absolutely prefer if a woman I meet is completely honest one way or another. Leaving another guessing is cruel and ghosting them is crueler. Be honest and upfront. We now have the life experience to deal with it.

If your looking for an adventurous, creative, exciting, sometimes spontaneous relationship I might be the one you are looking for.

Libra/Balança

Mediano

1.85 m

Caucasiana